Getting Past Gambling

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*Dale Carnegie {1888-1955 American Author & Achievement Expert}


Friday, August 12, 2005

ACCEPT THE ILLNESS FOR WHAT IT IS

Compulsive gambling is an emotional illness which can never be cured but can be arrested "one day at a time."

The compulsive gambler is a person who is dominated by an irresistible urge to gamble. Coupled with this is the obsessive idea that a way will be found, not only to control the gambling but to make it pay and enjoy it.

We compulsive gamblers often express a desire to stop forever, but inevitably we find ourselves back in action. For most of us there are days, weeks or even months when we are certain that we have gained control. These intervals invariably are followed by long periods of all-out uncontrolled gambling during which progressive deterioration in almost every department of our lives becomes evident. This deterioration is most acute in the relationships with our wives and husbands, friends, relatives and employers.

Therefore, acceptance of the progressive nature of our illness is vital in enabling us to recover and return to a normal, productive and enjoyable life.

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